3 Tips for Improving Sexual Communication
I used to expect my lovers to know what I liked, loved, and wanted in bed. I expected them to be mind-readers. Obviously, it didn’t go that well. I used to feel frustrated when they couldn’t read my body language and I used to think that they should just be...
5 Reasons why masturbation is good for you
I just completed a Self Pleasuring challenge. Every day, for 10 days, I started my morning with loving self touch. It felt loving and nurturing. I really loved exploring myself, discovering new ways of touching my body, opening up new pathways to pleasure. For centuries masturbation has been seen as sinful. Teenagers...
Sex sex sex
Everybody has a strong opinion about sex. Nobody is neutral. Throughout history, societies have either being pro-sex or against sex. On the one hand, sex positive societies celebrate sexual energy and promote rituals and space for honouring our life-force and sexual expression. Contrastingly, sex negative societies enforce restrictions and laws to...
STOP the mind chatter during sex
During sex do you find yourself thinking about work? Or about the things you need to do tomorrow?Our minds are so busy and they clash with our capacity to feel pleasure. I’d like you to turn the clock back for a moment, to a time when you had a mind-blowing...
Women Can Have a Hard On!
I remember being a teenager, experiencing engorgement in my vulva and vagina and getting confused. I used to link engorgement with inflammation, and thought something bad was happening. It was confusing and frustrating to feel pleasure and think that something was wrong with my pussy at the same time! I wish...